Grief, Loss, & Learning Thanatology Specialist

Grief touches every part of life, often leaving us feeling disoriented and alone. At This Thing Called Grief, our practitioners bring a thanatological perspective—the study of death, dying, and bereavement—informed and led by personal experience. We understand the many ways loss can shape a life and offer personalized, compassionate care to support your healing and resilience. You don’t have to... Read More

Grief touches every part of life, often leaving us feeling disoriented and alone. At This Thing Called Grief, our practitioners bring a thanatological perspective—the study of death, dying, and bereavement—informed and led by personal experience. We understand the many ways loss can shape a life and offer personalized, compassionate care to support your healing and resilience. You don’t have to face this alone. We’re here to help you find meaning, peace, and connection as you navigate your grief.


Social Work BSW, MSW, RSW, Thanatologist

A Master of Social Work (MSW) and Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) provide advanced and foundational training in counselling, mental health, advocacy, and community care, while the Registered Social Worker (RSW) designation ensures ethical, accountable professional practice. Informed by thanatology—the study of death, dying, grief, and loss—our work at This Thing Called Grief is grounded in deep u... Read More

A Master of Social Work (MSW) and Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) provide advanced and foundational training in counselling, mental health, advocacy, and community care, while the Registered Social Worker (RSW) designation ensures ethical, accountable professional practice. Informed by thanatology—the study of death, dying, grief, and loss—our work at This Thing Called Grief is grounded in deep understanding, compassion, and personalized support through life’s most difficult transitions.


Social Work BSW RSW

Social Work at This Thing Called Grief provides a supportive and understanding environment to help you manage life's ups and downs. Whether you're dealing with stress, anxiety, or complex family dynamics, our social work services offer personalized guidance and resources to improve your well-being. By focusing on your unique needs, we aim to empower you to overcome obstacles and find a ... Read More

Social Work at This Thing Called Grief provides a supportive and understanding environment to help you manage life's ups and downs.

Whether you're dealing with stress, anxiety, or complex family dynamics, our social work services offer personalized guidance and resources to improve your well-being.

By focusing on your unique needs, we aim to empower you to overcome obstacles and find a path to a more balanced and fulfilling life.


The Porchlight Program - Night-time Non-Clinical Grief Support

This Thing Called Grief: The Porchlight Program “Grief doesn’t make appointments.” | “Like a friend in the night.” The Porchlight Program offers short-term, peer-based support during the hours when grief often feels heaviest and support is hardest to find. Whether you are missing someone, sitting with difficult memories, or simply needing a human presence in the quiet of the night, we offer... Read More

This Thing Called Grief: The Porchlight Program
“Grief doesn’t make appointments.” | “Like a friend in the night.”

The Porchlight Program offers short-term, peer-based support during the hours when grief often feels heaviest and support is hardest to find. Whether you are missing someone, sitting with difficult memories, or simply needing a human presence in the quiet of the night, we offer compassionate listening and steady presence — like a light left on for you.

This is peer support only, not counselling, psychotherapy, or clinical care. No clinical notes are kept. Our role is not to fix, diagnose, or treat — it is simply to be with you, to listen, and to hold space with care and respect.

Grief can feel isolating, unpredictable, and deeply personal. We honour that every person grieves differently, and we meet you wherever you are in your process — whether your loss is recent, long-standing, complicated, or hard to put into words.

Availability: Nightly, 9:00 p.m. – 3:00 a.m.
Session Options:
• 15 minutes — $40
• 30 minutes — $75

Sessions can be booked in the moment if space is available.

Important:
The Porchlight Program is not crisis care or emergency support. If you are in immediate distress or feel unsafe, please contact your local crisis line or emergency services.

Kim Vander Schelde (she/her) is a dedicated grief, bereavement, and loss specialist serving individuals across Canada with deep empathy and compassionate care. Grounded in both professional expertise and lived experience, Kim specializes in supporting parents of children diagnosed with cancer and brings personal insight shaped by infertility, partner loss, life with a first responder, suicide, life-limiting illness, and experiences with crime. She offers a safe, steady space for people to feel heard, understood, and supported—especially when other supports feel unavailable or insufficient—providing thoughtful presence, genuine connection, and hope during life’s most difficult moments

Kim Vander Schelde (she/her) is a dedicated grief, bereavement, and loss specialist serving indiv... Read More

Sam offers a warm, non-judgmental space for men, fathers, women, and families to explore grief, loss, identity, and life transitions in ways that feel safe, grounded, and authentic. With a deep understanding of masculine grief and the pressures many men carry to stay strong, he helps fathers and men express vulnerability, process complex emotions, and redefine strength on their own terms. He also supports women and mothers through the layered emotional demands of grief, providing compassionate validation and practical tools for healing. Drawing on his background in social work and thanatology, Sam focuses on building resilient, trusting relationships that empower individuals and families to grow, reconnect with purpose, and move forward with greater emotional clarity and confidence.

Sam offers a warm, non-judgmental space for men, fathers, women, and families to explore grief, l... Read More

Sarah is a compassionate, trauma-informed Registered Social Worker with over 20 years of experience supporting individuals through life transitions, loss, and emotional challenges. She provides strengths-based, solution-focused counselling informed by CBT, along with practical resource navigation during vulnerable times. Sarah works with adults and individuals across the lifespan, offering care for concerns including anxiety, depression, grief and bereavement, infertility and miscarriage loss, palliative care, relationship challenges, emotional regulation, and cognitive changes. Her passion lies in creating a safe, supportive space where people can process grief, build resilience, and move gently from struggle toward healing.

Sarah is a compassionate, trauma-informed Registered Social Worker with over 20 years of experien... Read More

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